A Stack of Gold for Epiphany

Not all of our books are pictured in this stack. I ordered some just this morning. The good thing about Christmas as a season? Amazon is much less busy on the january side of the season. It's not too late!

Not all of our books are pictured in this stack. I ordered some just this morning. The good thing about Christmas as a season? Amazon is much less busy on the january side of the season. It's not too late!

We have a long held family tradition to set the table for breakfast on on January 6th with a big stack of gold in the middle. Treasures brought from afar, riches for my babes.

Books, of course.

Every year, for Epiphany, I wrap one book per child--one carefully chosen, well considered book--and layer them one atop the other to get my golden pile. How to tell you about this year's pile without giving away any secrets?  Well, first of all, I don't think my kids remember I have a blog;-). Secondly, the Amazon box came and someone who shall remain nameless promptly opened it and looked inside anyway. She's one of two who might perchance read this post. So, I think I'll just put it up there and count on none of them to read it. 

Michael's book will wait for a visit here from California the weekend following Epiphany. Seems like a good one for a boy on the brink of big things in California. 

Kristin (who might just read this post--sorry, K) will receive The Nesting Place. I've had this book for some time, but just got around to reading it over the Christmas break. I loved it! Her philosophy of home and decorating and, really, life in general is so refreshing. I come from a place where decorating and housekeeping needed to be perfect (or very close) and this book was a breath of fresh air. The reason I love it for Kristin is the author moved A LOT and she also rented A LOT. Kristin is entering a season of both renting and moving and I think she'll enjoy the wisdom here. 

Christian's book is being sent to him at school. He went back early to work on his movie. At last count though, he'd seen the new Star Wars movie four times. He's going to appreciate every nuance in this book.

For Patrick, I'm adding to his personal C. S. Lewis library. He requested his own copy of Mere Christianity (these new editions are so pretty) early last semester and then came home from college and pulled Confessions of St. Augustine off the shelf. I think everyone should have a copy of The Great Divorce to sit next to Mere Christianity and be revisited throughout adulthood. 

Mary Beth has a whole stack of Marisa de los Santos books waiting for her. I loved these books during 2015 and I really want her to read them. Her school reading load has been so intense, that those books might linger on the nightstand a while longer. I couldn't go without giving though, so, at Anne Bogel's recommendation,  I ordered Astonish Me

Stephen is likely just as big a Stars Wars geek as Christian, so, for him I wrapped up this gem

Nicholas is a big Rick Riordan fan (and his mom is, too) . This nice, thick novel should take him--us;-)-- through winter. 

Katie has been enjoying the recent adult coloring books craze, so I got her this one to use for her quiet time while we eagerly await the release of this book. It's a journaling Bible with with over 400 beautiful line-art illustrations spread throughout the Bible. I'm so excited about the chance to color and to ponder and write inside the pages of the Bible. I know that this is a good way to get her in the habit of journaling in the margins. These books (I ordered two) can't get here soon enough! 

Karoline has three books going. That's my girl! She's listening to The Saturdays with Sarah and they are both loving it. I will admit that when they ask to have their own Saturday adventures and say, walk to the town center by themselves, I shudder a little. Life int he suburbs has changed since the Melendy four were little. Incidentally, though I've often heard that The Saturdays was not to be missed, I never read it until I heard it was a childhood favorite of Marisa de lost Santos. I might have an author crush on Marisa.  Kari is also reading both the first Harry Potter and the fourth Penderwicks  (again). I know it's just a matter of moments until they've finished The Saturdays, so I got her the next book in the Melendy Quartet. She'll be pleased, for sure. 

It dawned on me this morning that this stack used to be all picture books and now, there are just a couple picture books in a stack of big people books. For Sarah, who dearly loves Jan Brett (and will no doubt read Karoline's chapter book, too), I got The Turnip. Because, you know, I just wanted to buy a picture book for my baby. She will be a fan; I'm certain of that. 

And finally, Lucy--who received a giant stack of picture books for Christmas--will get this awesome Montessori counting book. Sarah was excited to see it in the house because I'm told they have it at Mrs. Carmen's school. Anything in that school is a good thing:-).

So, all wrapped up and shining like gold, these are our treasure for Epiphany this year. It's not too late. It's still Christmas! Maybe a new tradition happens in your house, too?

(Lots and lots more book ideas here. Lots.)

On Christmas Trees and Nutcrackers

Photo credit: Paul Sanford

Photo credit: Paul Sanford

{{Remember, I've gathered my "Best of Advent and Christmas" into this great bundle. It's a gift to give yourself. }}

When I talked with Sarah earlier this week about immersing ourselves in Advent and Christmas reading during these December weeks, I stressed that the books and activities of the season aren't things I heap on to an already full academic plan. Instead, I apply the principles of a Storybook Year and seize the interest and enthusiasm of my children for the thrilling events of this time of year and just make that what we're learning and doing. 

A great example of this in action is this ridiculously intense week of the Nutcracker performances. In the space of two days, there will be 6 performances. For those days, dance will be all we do. But on the days surrounding those days and the days in the afterglow, there's a whole lot to learn away from the stage. (Let me tell you all the things we learned about lace and tulle last week... maybe in another post;-)

This is also the big decorating week around our house. Christmas greens are the best botany lesson of all in December! The week ahead looks downright balmy--perfect for an outdoor adventure.

photo credit: Kristin Foss

photo credit: Kristin Foss

So in our house, this is a good week totravel along a Christmas trail and inhale the sweet smells of evergreen along the way. it's also a very good week to take advantage of the total family immersion in the Nutcracker to look at some art and music and storytelling. Remember, the whole idea behind a Storybook year, particularly during seasons of lots of outside-the-box learning (like dance productions), is to seize the enthusiasm and also the "real world" context for what kids are learning, not to kill yourself doing more and more and more.

So, as the tree goes up and the boughs get trimmed and the halls get decked, we can look a little more closely at the greenery. We can learn about coniferous trees and study the botanical information we can glean from looking carefully at Christmas trees:  Scots pine (Pinus sylvestris), Douglas fir (Pseudotsuga menziesii), Noble fir (Abies procera), and Norway spruce (Picea abies). Though we have a big brother away at college who really can't breathe in the presence of a pine tree, my bunch at home and I will visit a Christmas tree farm to gather some boughs and cones in order to carefully draw and compare needles and cones. We won't leave them here in the house when Patrick arrives home, though.

photo credit: Mary Beth Foss

photo credit: Mary Beth Foss

There's a lot to be learned in picture books and a whole lot of science waiting to gently happen as you look carefully at Christmas greens. We've had great success teaching basic botany with books like Pine Trees and Golden Field Guides. This week, we're focusing on conifers.  Want to come along? Simply read the books with your child and then work your way through together, discussing the concepts, narrating, and drawing. Don't be tempted to leave out the "drawing" step--it really does enhance understanding and retention. For further study, botanical nomenclature cards are a good way to apply the Montessori three period lesson to botany study. These cards can also be used for drawing and labeling.


Ideas for Evergreen Reading:

Suggested Books for Read-Alouds and Narrations (These are to be narrated both verbally and artistically.  For the younger children it is often fun to keyboard an oral narration for them and then ask the child to illustrate the printed page.)

Why Christmas Trees Aren't Perfect

The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree

Mr. Willowby's Christmas Tree

The Christmas Tree

The Legend of the Christmas Tree

photo credit: Paul Sanford (This one's from last year. Don't blink;-)

photo credit: Paul Sanford (This one's from last year. Don't blink;-)

Writing :

You may want to begin to explore The Fairy Tale Christmas  book. There is more than enough material here for December and January. Since this week is Nutcracker week for the Foss family, we'll read the story of The Nutcracker in The Fairy Tale Christmas book. Older children can really explore the complexity of the story in the long version in this great book, illustrated by Maurice Sendak. We can all read this Susan Jeffer's edition and  discuss the notes about the story which the author of Fairy Tale Christmas has made. The older children will write critical papers discussing the story. Everyone will draw and illustrate The Nutcracker. Alternatively, use a story from Andrew Lang's Fairy Books or Hans Christian Andersen's Fairy Tales or Grimm's Fairy Tales. For younger children, mom keyboards as the children tell the story. Older children are encouraged to write or keyboard for themselves. An older child's story is a great place for proofreading and editing practice. Younger children love to see their stories printed. All children should illustrate their stories. Stories written by younger children can be used for reading practice. To illustrate those stories, we'll learn  how to draw a nutcracker

We also thoroughly enjoyed giggling over Talulah's Nutcracker and Angelina's Nutcracker. 

Serendipi-Tea Time
Nutcracker music is likely to be heard at the Foss home during tea time this week. And we'll test out some of these recipes for sweet treats:
Sugarplums
Arabian Coffee
Snow cookies

Advent and Christmas with Tomie DePaola

For all things Advent and Christmas season, make your first stop this one. Here, you will find daily devotions, thoughtful essays, great ideas on traditions and books, tutorials, recipes, crafts, and a 45 minute podcast that will feed your soul and help you to take care of yourself this season. So go here first; then please enjoy all the books suggestions in this post. 

Making a list, checking it twice, copying and reducing covers, printing out memory work, gathering notebooking supplies... Here we go!

Making a list, checking it twice, copying and reducing covers, printing out memory work, gathering notebooking supplies... Here we go!

Here you go! Back by popular demand, this is the classic "how to homeschool" during December in our house. It's all here for almost all ages. Just add math:-).

An Integrated Literature Unit for Advent and Christmas

The following is an example of how to make living the liturgical year all you do for “school” for a season. This is an advent and Christmas unit. It was designed with the real limitations and demands of a large family in mind. It is not necessary to do everything. It is necessary to prayerfully discern what would best benefit your family. 

My favorite children's authors is Tomie de Paola (click here for his autobiography!). A Catholic of Irish-Italian descent, he is not afraid to wear his faith on his sleeve. He liberally sprinkles inferences to Mass, the saints, and even confession throughout basically secular books that can easily be found on public library shelves. In addition to many folktales from varied cultures, he has also written several well-researched, beautifully illustrated stories of saints. And he has enough advent and Christmas books to carry a family from the first Sunday in advent through Epiphany. Some of the books have gone out of print since the unit was first written, but some of those can be found in this anthology.

In Merry Christmas, Strega Nona, many children will recognize dear old "Grandma Witch" who begins preparing for her traditional Christmas Eve feast on the first Sunday of Advent. She staunchly refuses to use the magic she employs during the rest of the year, insisting that Christmas has a magic of its own. Big Anthony, her bumbling helper, has a Christmas surprise planned for the old lady and the entire town turns out to help him make the holiday a special one for her. 

Next in line is Country Angel Christmas. I introduced this one on the Feast of Saint Nicholas, December 6. There is definitely a sense of advent as a time of preparation as all the angels in heaven are preparing for the celestial Christmas celebration. The littlest angels are told to be scarce while the barn angels ready the animals for the procession, the kitchen angels bake, and the music angels rehearse carols. It is Saint Nicholas, in heaven where he belongs, who finds the littlest angels the all-important job of providing light for the celebration. This book works beautifully at the beginning of the season because, like Merry Christmas, Strega Nona, there is great emphasis on the preparation. 

December 12 is the feast of the Lady of Guadalupe and de Paola has an exquisite picture book by that name. The author is both a gifted artist and a superb storyteller. This is the story of the Aztec peasant Juan Diego, who sees our Lady as a pregnant Mexican woman and hears her tell him to build shrine in her honor. He must convince a skeptical bishop. Mary graciously provides a miraculous sign, captured beautifully in de Paola's pictures. 

Hispanic parishes always have a large picture of Our Lady of Guadelupe and carry it in procession on her feast day. True to his love of detail, de Paola depicts such a procession in The Legend of the Poinsettia. Lucida is little girl who is helping her mother weave a blanket for the Christmas crèche at church. When her mother suddenly falls seriously ill, the child tries to finish the blanket herself. She tangles it miserably and is bereft at the thought of having nothing to bring to the manger. An old woman mysteriously appears outside the church and suggests she carry a bundle of weeds inside. The picture of Lucida kneeling by the crèche, surrounded by glorious poinsettias, is guaranteed to inspire you to run out and buy many, many of these flowers to adorn your mangers at home. Both this book and The Lady of Guadelupe are available in Spanish. 

Closer to Christmas, The Clown of God is a lovely way to remind children that the greatest gift, indeed Christ's own gift, is the gift of self. A traveling juggler has spent his whole life making people laugh. Near the end of his days, he searches for the perfect present for Mary and the Infant. He learns and teaches a valuable lesson in giving. 

Following the clown theme, Jingle, the Christmas Clown, is an award winner not to be missed. Jingle is the youngest clown in the circus and the circus is traveling to the big city for its annual Christmas performance. Every year, the circus stops in a little village for Christmas Eve. This year, they arrive to find the village destitute. All of the young people have left; even the church is closed. The circus presses on, except for Jingle, the youngest clown, and the baby animals, who are too tired to travel. The little animals and Jingle put on a very special show for the old villagers. An angel appears amidst golden stars at the show's finale. The recipe for golden star cookies at the end of the book is a natural invitation to an afternoon of cookie baking and decorating.   

On January first, Mary, The Mother of Jesusis a logical choice. This book is lovely and quite different from the author’s typical children’s storybook or his saints’ stories. Mary’s life is depicted in fifteen beautifully illustrated segments. In his forward, Tomie de Paola writes, “When I was an art student in 1956, I saw the Giotto frescoes of the life of Mary in the Arena Chapel in Padua, Italy. I knew that some day, I would attempt my own visual version of Mary’s life. I have drawn on scripture, legend and tradition for the praise of Mary, the mother of Jesus.” 

Stretching beyond Christmas day and on to Epiphany, The Story of the Three Wise Kings, recounts the legend of the Wisemen. They travel to Bethlehem to pay homage to Jesus. Along the way, they encounter Herod and before their return, they are warned by an angel to travel a different route. 

Finally, The Legend of Old Befana must be told. Old Befana is a cranky old Italian woman who is too set in her ways to get up immediately to follow the Wisemen who are following the star to visit the Baby King. Because she sets out too late, she never catches up with the wise men's traveling party and so she searches still, leaving goodies outside the doors of children on the Feast of the Three Kings. "For, after all," says Old Befana, "I never know which child might be the Baby King of Bethlehem." Sounds like the beginning of a new tradition in our house. 

The First Week of Advent

Scripture Memory Verse: Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit.  She will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people form their sins. (Matthew 1:20)

Narration:

Listen to or read Merry Christmas Strega Nona (de Paola) and narrate and illustrate.

And

Listen to or read The Country Angel Christmas (de Paola) and narrate and illustrate.

Reading Practice:

Early readers can read Merry Christmas Strega Nona and The Country Angel Christmas after hearing it read aloud.   If this is too challenging, have the child read from a clean, corrected, typewritten copy of his own narration of the story.

For more advanced readers:

The Littlest Angel (Tazewell)

For Older Children:

Wonderworker: The True Story of How Saint Nicholas Became Santa Claus

Just David (Porter)

To Read Aloud together:

26 Fairmount AvenueThis is Tomie de Paola’s autobiography.

Copywork and Studied Dictation:

For beginners:

Don’t think about what others have done.  Just be yourselves and you will make a fine Christmas.

For Level 2:

His halo was permanently tarnished where he held on to it with one hot, little, chubby hand when he ran, and he was always running. Furthermore, even when he stood very still, it never behaved as a halo should.  It was always slipping down over his right eye...

For Level 3:

The friends, the relatives, the adoring public, the mint of money--they are all David's now.  But once each year, man grown though he is, he picks up his violin and journeys to a little village far up among the hills.  There in a quiet kitchen he plays to an old man and an old woman; and always to himself he says that he is practicing against the time when, his violin at his chin and the bow drawn across the strings, he shall go to meet his father in the far-away land, and tell him of the beautiful world he has left.

Safe surfing while mom makes lists and checks them twice:  Go to Tomie de Paola’s website www.tomie.com and spend some time there every week.  Kids can narrate about what they learned there.

And there is SO MUCH to learn and do at the Saint Nicholas Center.

 

Rabbit Trails for the whole family:

· Together, make a list of all the Advent activities your family does.  Compare the list with another family.  Are there any new traditions you would like to adopt?

· Write a family advent prayer.  Pray that this will be a special time to prepare for Jesus’ birthday

· Discuss the real hierarchy of angels.

· Help the child make puppets to dramatize Merry Christmas, Strega Nona.  Perform the show for family and friends on Christmas Day.

· Make apple star prints.  Cut an apple in half width-wise (surprise! there is a star inside) and use tempera to print the stars on paper.  Or print them on canvas bags or aprons with fabric paint and give as a Christmas gift.

· Make glitter glue stars to hang on the Christmas tree.  Draw stars in glue on wax paper.  Sprinkle with glitter.  When the glue dries, peel away the wax paper.  Use gold thread to hang.

·The country angels harnessed a star to shed light on the Christmas celebration.  During advent, we await Christ, who is the Light of the world.  Make an advent meditation candle to remind you throughout the season that it is Christ’s light that is a “light unto my path and a lamp unto my feet” (Psalm 119: 105).  Decorate a large pillar candle with colored beeswax cut into figures which represent biblical events from the time of Adam and Eve until Jesus’ birth.  (supplies are available from Hearthsong)

· Bake something that requires “peeling sifting, pouring and stirring” like the kitchen angels did.

Read The Baker's Dozen and make cookies using the cookie cutters available from St. Nicholas Center.

·  Make a traditional Italian Christmas Eve dinner.  Throughout Italy, traditional dinners include twelve courses, in honor of the twelve apostles.  (See recipe box for ideas, including Big Anthony’s cod.)  This is a seafood dinner.  You can do this now or wait until it’s really Christmas Eve.

More rabbit trails for older children:

· Research Saint Nicholas.  Read how his legend evolved in Hark! A Christmas Sampler.The Real Story of the St. Nicholas Legend. Narrate a story a day from The Real St. Nicholas: Tales of Generosity from Around the World. Alternatively, read

· Find Turkey on the map.  What kind of country is it now?  Write or dictate a report on your findings. The Holy Father will be in Turkey this week, the week before St. Nicholas Day.  Have an older child follow the trip carefully and collect web reports and newspaper clippings.

·  Find Italy on the map.  Research Christmas traditions in Italy. Write or dictate a report on your findings.

·  Tomie de Paola has written several saint stories.  He doesn’t have one entitled The Story of Saint Nicholas.  Write and illustrate one.

Poet Study:

Read "Twas The Night Before Christmas" by Clement C. Moore, Matt Tavares (Illustrator). Read every day, slowly, memorizing the poem together.  This is the only poetry for the entire month.  Break copywork into small chunks.  Let children illustrate segments as they memorize.

Picture Study:

Discuss Tomie de Paola as an author and illustrator.  Read The Art Lesson by Tomie de Paola.  Choose a picture of Saint Nicholas from Country Angel Christmas to study. Discuss your Saint Nicholas choice, without looking at the print, round robin style, beginning with the youngest child. Copy the picture or give a detailed oral narration of it. Compare an icon of Saint Nicholas to dePaola’s drawing in Country Angel Christmas.  Draw your own picture of Saint Nicholas in any style you wish.

Science and Nature Study

· Don’t forget to get outside for a hike and don’t let it get swept away by the pressure of the season.  A brisk walk is a great stress-buster for mom and kids.  Look for natural materials to use as Christmas decorations.

· Decorate pinecones with glitter or sequins or wire them into a wreath.  Tie cinnamon sticks with red ribbon.  String popcorn and cranberries for outdoor trees to feed the birds.

Music:

Enjoy A Classical Kids Christmas

Tea Time Read Aloud

Saint’s biography:  St. Nicholas the Wonder Worker (Neuberger) or The Real St. Nicholas: Tales of Generosity from Around the World.

Jotham’s Journey (Ytreeide)  This is includes a daily reading for every day of Advent and Christmas Day.  It is an adventure story that can get intense at times.  Preview each selection and paraphrase if you think it necessary.  Not a bedtime story. This is out of print. Worth finding.

Advent and Christmas with Tomie de Paola and Others: Week 2

Scripture Memory Verse: And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden.  For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.”

Luke 1: 46-49 Shorten as necessary.

Narration:

Child will listen to or read The Legend of the Poinsettia and The Lady of Guadalupe and The Night of Las Posadas and narrate. 

Stories to Read:

The Lady of Guadalupe

The Night of Las Posadas

The Legend of the Poinsettia

The Christmas Miracle of Jonathon Toomey

The Christmas Tree (Salamon)

Read Aloud: A Christmas Carol. (Dickens). 

Copywork

For beginners: May God be as good to you as he was to Juan Diego.

For middles: Juan Diego looked down.  His rough cactus-fiber tilma had been changed into a painting of the Lady just as he had last seen her at the foot of Tepeyac.

For the big kids:

And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior, For he has regarded the low estate of his handmaiden. For behold, henceforth all generations will call me blessed; for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.”

Rabbit Trails for the whole family:

Read about Mexico.  Find it on the map and tell about the country today.  How is Christmas celebrated there?

Make Holiday Flan:

4 eggs

2 and one half cups milk

one half cup honey

1 teaspoon vanilla

1 to 2 tablespoons warmed honey or syrup

Method:

In a medium bowl, beat the eggs until foamy.  In a small saucepan, heat the milk and honey together just to simmering, then add the vanilla.

In a slow, thin stream, beat the milk mixture into the eggs.  Our the mixture into a buttered 9” layer cake pan or flan pan.  Place in a large, shallow pan or baking dish filled with hot water to a depth of one-half inch.  Bake at 325 degrees for thirty-five to forty minutes, or until the center is fairly firm.  Glaze with the honey.

Makes six servings

(from Joy to the World by Phyllis Vos Wezeman and Jude Dennis Fournier)

The creche is an important part of The Legend of the Poinsettia.  Where did the tradition of the manger scene begin?  Read about it in Francis, The Poor Man of Assisi by Tomie dePaola.

Make tissue paper flowers in red, white, and pink, traditional poinsettia colors.

Copy de Paola’s picture of Our Lady of Guadeloupe onto cardstock using magic markers.  Send it as a Christmas card.

Using felt, make a large banner of Our Lady like the one in the book.

Have a procession like the one in the book.  Gather up some friends to parade with you and have hot chocolate and cookies afterwards.

Make  Mexican Hot Chocolate for tea time.

Copy the recipe above and embellish the recipe card for your notebook.

Make a manger scene using old-fashioned clothespins, doll head beads and felt (all supplies are readily available in craft stores).

Make clothespin poinsettia ornaments (tutorial for this is in the Comfort & Joy Ebook)

Make rose pound cake.

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Make a Juan Diego for your notebook. Copy the illustration of Jaun Diego twice.  Cut the tilma only out of one of the copies.  Copy the image of Our Lady.

Cut and glue the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe to the full copy of Juan Diego. Tape the bottom of the tilma-only copy to the Juan Diego. Stick rose stickers to the inside so that when it falls open, you see roses. 

If there is a baby in the house, make a ceremony of letting each child trace a cross on her forehead and say, “May God be as good to you as he was to Juan Diego.”

Make a grotto for Our Lady of Guadalupe

Watch Juan Diego:  Messenger of Guadalupe

More rabbit trails for older children:

Research Christmas traditions in Mexico. Make a flip book of them for your notebook.

The story of Our Lady of Guadeloupe is presented as a legend in the book, using another source, read about the Church’s official teaching on Juan Diego. Read about the canonization of Juan Diego.

Our Lady of Guadeloupe is just one of many of Mary’s titles.  Make a list of all of them and decorate the list with embellishments.

Carve a nativity set.

Draw Our Lady of Guadalupe

Poet Study:

Read "Twas The Night Before Christmas" by Clement C. Moore, Matt Tavares (Illustrator). Read every day, slowly, memorizing the poem together.  This is the only poetry for the entire month.  Break copywork into small chunks.  Let children illustrate segments as they memorize.

Science and Nature Study

Don’t forget to get outside for a hike and don’t let it get swept away by the pressure of the season.  A brisk walk is a great stress-buster for mom and kids.

Go to a Christmas tree farm and compare the different varieties of trees.  Make sketches and label them in nature notebooks.

Read about Christmas plants in Hark! A Christmas Sampler (beginning on page 60). Visit a nursery to see Christmas plants up close.  Bring home a poinsettia.

Narrate what you learned about Christmas plants and make a poinsettia covered brad-book for your notebook.  Copy a poinsettia picture from de Paola’s book, laminate it, trace it onto several pages of lined paper.  Write narrations on the lined paper and “bind” them behind the laminated illustration with a brad.

Music:

Enjoy A Classical Kids Christmas

Listen to Castilian Roses

Tea Time Read Aloud: Strega Nona's Gift

Saint’s biography: The Story of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Empress of the Americas

Jotham’s Journey (Ytreeide)  This is includes a daily reading for every day of Advent and Christmas Day.  It is an adventure story that can get intense at times.  Preview each selection and paraphrase if you think it necessary.  Not a bedtime story.

 

POINSETTIA FLOWER FAIRIES

Tutorial for these are in the Comfort & Joy Ebook :-).

 

The week before and Christmas Week

Scripture memory and copywork choose all or part of Luke 2:7-14

Narration:

Child will listen to or read the following books according to interest and ability and then narrate aloud or write narrations:

Jingle the Christmas Clown

Clown of God

The Friendly Beasts

Who’s Coming to Our House? (This is a great one to have a new reader read to the toddlers.)

The Miracle of St. Nicholas

The Miracle on34th Street (de Paola illustrator)

Papa’s Angels

For notebooks, take a color copy of the book covers and reduce them. Keyboard the narration and paste it behind the copy, flipbook style.

Read Alouds:

Christmas Remembered (This is a new Tomie de Paola. We’re pretty excited about our autographed version. Thanks for thinking of us Leah; wish we could have been there!)

St. John Bosco (Vision Books) or watch this wonderful DVD

More copywork for notebooks:

Make a color copy of each of the animals in The Friendly Beasts and fold over and cut. Copy the verse from the book beneath each animal and paste into notebook.

On the web:

This Devotions to Infant Jesus website has an overview and links to various pages. On this page there are some images of saints traditionally depicted holding the infant Jesus (Mary , Joseph, Christopher, Anthony, Cajetan)

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Rabbit Trails for the whole family:

  • Read the “Gift of the Littlest Shepherd” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler.  Compare the gift of the shepherd with the gift of the juggler.
  • Read The Little Drummer Boy. What gift have you got to give?
  • Make a gift coupon for each person in your family.  Decorate them in Tomie de Paola’s style.
  • Make a gingerbread stable for Jingle’s animals.  Use animal crackers in your scene.
  • Saint John Bosco could juggle.  Find out how this skill was helpful in his ministry.
  • Learn to juggle.
  • Make star cookies using the recipe in Jingle The Christmas Clown. This year, we are making gingerbread star cookies for Gaudete Sunday and decorating them with pink and purple sparkle sugar.
  • On December 28, the Feast of the Holy Innocents, read “The Dough and the Child” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler.  Make yeast bread.
  • After reading The Miracle of St. Nicholas, discuss how the farmer’s wife kept hope alive and made beeswax candles year after year. Make some of your own. Here are some to roll.  Here is some great information formore beeswax candlesmaking. You can order bulk beeswax from Mountain Rose Herbs.
  • A nice addition to the unit study for this week would be to look at some of the devotions to the Holy Child and learn about them:
  • Jesu Bambino (Rome)
  • Infant of Prague (Czech Republic)
  • Santo Nino de Atocha (Spain, Mexico)
  • Santo Bambino di Ara Coeli or Lama dei Peligni (Italy)
  • Santo Nino of Cebu (Philippines)
  • Divino Nino de Bogata (Columbia)

Pray the Infant of Prague Novena as a family.

Poet Study:

Read Twas The Night Before Christmas by Clement C. Moore, Matt Tavares (Illustrator). Read every day, slowly, memorizing the poem together. This is the only poetry for the entire month. Break copywork into small chunks. Let children illustrate segments as they memorize.

Picture Study:

Sift through the Christmas cards your family receives. For the ones depicting classic art, learn the titles and artists. Spend an afternoon trying to copy one or two of them.

Science and Nature Study:

  • Jingle took good care of the animals.  Animal were also important to Saint Francis.  Read “The Legend of the Birds” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler .  Make a present for the birds using pinecones, peanut butter, and birdseed.  Hang it with a Christmas ribbon on a tree in your yard.
  • We tend to romanticize the stable.  Take a trip to a working barn during Christmas week.  Be prepared for unpleasant sights and smells.  Imagine a tiny infant there.
  • Write a Christmas story with animals in it.

Music:

Enjoy Christmas Carols 24/7!

Tea Time Read Aloud

Jotham’s Journey (Ytreeide) This is includes a daily reading for every day of Advent and Christmas Day. It is an adventure story that can get intense at times. Preview each selection and paraphrase if you think it necessary. Not a bedtime story.

Week Four

 

1. Read Mary, The Mother of Jesus as a family and study the pictures.  Compare the events depicted in the book with the mysteries of the rosary.

2. Illustrate the mysteries of the rosary, reflecting the style in dePaola’s book.  Use the illustration for meditation when you pray the family rosary this year.

3. Also read Donkey's Dream by Barbara Helen Berger.

4. Read and memorize “The Donkey’s Song” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler.

5. Using a new calendar, write in all the Marian feast days and decorate those squares.

6. On January first, we honor Mary in her role as the Mother of God.  Choose a mother (or grandmother or godmother) you know who reminds you of the Blessed Mother.  Write about it.  Illustrate your essay with a border of forget-me-nots like those in The Donkey’s Dream.  Present your essay as a gift to the mother you chose.

7. Read “The Legend of the Rosemary” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler.

8. Make rosemary botanical candles.  Wrap and knot a length of wick around a pencil.  Suspend it across the top of a clean quart sized milk carton (cut the top off the carton to make it square).  Melt beeswax in an clean aluminum can set in a pot of simmering water.  Pour into the carton, filling the carton about one quarter of the way full. Let harden slightly and sprinkle with dried rosemary.  Add more hot wax, to the halfway mark and repeat with the rosemary until you have filled the candle.  Let harden completely (overnight).  Peel away the milk carton.

9. Make Rosemary Chicken for dinner.

2 pounds boneless, skinless chicken breasts

2 cans cream of mushroom soup

one half cup white wine

one teaspoon dried rosemary

Flour the chicken breasts and brown quickly in a skillet with olive oil (no need to cook through).    Put chicken in a crock pot and cover with the rest of the ingredients.  Cook on low eight to ten hours.  Serve over egg noodles.

10.  Obtain a copy of an art book which shows the frescoes that inspired de Paola.  Compare them with de Paola’s drawings.  Write a critical essay contrasting the two.

Week Five

The Legend of Old Befana

1. Read “The Littlest Camel” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler

2. Read “Baboushka” in Hark! A Christmas Sampler

3. On January sixth, leave a little gift at a neighbor’s door with a note signed “Old Befana.”  Keep the secret forever.

4. Make cardboard crowns.  Decorate throughout January with one plastic jewel for every Bible verse memorized.

5. Make stars from translucent paper to hang in the window to remind you to always follow the star.  ########

6. Make King cake with little treasures baked into it.  Serve with wassail punch.

7. What is the scientific explanation of the star in the east?

8. Compare Baboushka with Old Befana.  Write a short, well-organized paragraph contrasting the two.

9. Cut up this year’s Christmas cards to make flannelboard pieces. Can you tell the whole nativity story with them.  What else can you do with them?  Be creative.

 

A Christmas Read Aloud Around the World

For all things Advent and Christmas season, make your first stop this oneHere, you will find daily devotions, thoughtful essays, great ideas on traditions and books, tutorials, recipes, crafts, and a 45 minute podcast that will feed your soul and help you to take care of yourself this season. So go here first; then please enjoy all the books suggestions in this post. 

Several years ago, Colleen and I put our heads together to come up with a slightly different "school" plan for Advent. I knew the Tomie de Paola unit by heart and so did my children. Those books, dear and familiar, are still the steady foundation upon which we build our literature and learning this time of year. But that year, grief was raw in Colleen's household and our family had traveled a sad road with them. Together, we were immersed in a yearlong geography study and we thought we'd dig a little deeper into the Advent and Christmas traditions around the world, while still intentionally planning to revisit some seasonal favorites.

I've dusted those plans off, added a few fresh ideas, and plan to introduce them to the little girls who were just babies last time we did this unit study. 
 

Beautiful Books to Learn From:

We'll use these books for read-alouds and narration during this season.  I'll read a chapter or two of the Lankford book to the children at the beginning of the week, then at the end of the week, open the scene from the pop-up book and have them narrate what they see there based on what they have learned that week and note anything important the scene may be missing.

Advent Week 1: Focus on Germany, Poland

Traditions to Learn About: Advent Traditions Around the World


Links for research:
German Christmas Customs
The History of the Advent Wreath
Polish Christmas Traditions
Overview and Links to Individual Feasts in Poland

Books to Illustrate the Idea:
Silent Night
Waiting for Christmas
Waiting for Noel: An Advent Story

Stories for Preparing Little Hearts:
When It Snowed that Night
Who's Coming to Our House?
Country Angel Christmas
B is for Bethlehem

Fireside Tales: 
Gingerbread Friends
Gingerbread Baby
Papa's Angels
The Little Match Girl

 

Recipes to Try:

Lebkuchen

Pfeffernusse

Springerle

 

Ornaments for Your Tree: Sculpey Gingerbread Men, Houses

 

By Hand With Heart: Throwing Chestnuts (a fun gift for siblings, cousins, neighbors, friends)

 

Advent Week 2: Focus on Russia, Eastern Europe, Scandinavia

Traditions to Learn About: St. Nicholas Around the World


LinksSt. Nicholas Center's Around the World Page
Scandinavian Christmas Traditions
Russian Christmastide
The Real Father Christmas
Books to Illustrate the Idea:
The Miracle of St. Nicholas
The Legend of St. Nicholas
Wonder Worker
St. Nicholas: The Real Story of the Christmas Legend
The Real St. Nicholas
The Baker's Dozen: A St. Nicholas Tale
The Miraculous Child: A Christmas Folk Tale from Old Russia 
The Wild Christmas Reindeer

Feasts to Celebrate:
St. Nicholas
Immaculate Conception
Our Lady of Guadelupe

Stories for Preparing Little Hearts:
Donkey's Dream
The Friendly Beasts
St. Francis and the Christmas Donkey 
Lady of Guadelupe

Fireside Tales:
Miracle of 34th Street
The Polar Express
Christmas Trolls
Trouble with Trolls

The Hat

The Mitten

The Twelve Days of Christmas (Brett)

The Night before Christmas (Brett and others)

Recipes to Try:

Russian Christmas Coffee Cake   

Russian Tea Cakes

Russian Spice Tea

 

Ornaments for Your Tree: Wee Wooden St. Nicholases

  

By Hand With Heart: Matroyshka Dolls (You can order blank dolls here  ....consider decoupaging them with photos of siblings or cousins or grandchildren and giving them as a family gift.)

 

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Advent Week 3: Focus on Mexico, the British Isles

Traditions to Learn About: Christmas Decorations Around the World

Links for further research:  

Mexican Christmas Traditions

The Great British Christmas

Books to Illustrate the Idea:
The Legend of the Poinsettia
The Legend of the Christmas Tree
The Night of Las Posadas
Cobweb Christmas 
The Christmas Tree 
St. Francis Celebrates Christmas 

Feasts to Celebrate:  
St. Lucy    

Stories for Preparing Little Hearts:                         
This is the Star
O Holy Night: Harlem Boys' Choir
Room for a Little One 

Fireside Tales:

The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey

Why Christmas Trees Aren't Perfect

A Wish to be a Christmas Tree

The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree 
An Orange For Frankie 

Recipes to Try:

Mexican Orange Spice Cookies

Mexican Hot Chocolate

Mulled Cider

British Christmas Cake

 

Ornaments for Your Tree:  Victorian Ball Ornament (Search the web from some inspiring images, start with styrofoam balls, then use things already in your craft cabinets to glitz them up-fabric scraps, sequins, beads, glitter, feathers--so many possibilities.  Sophisitcation and charm are your goals.)

 

By Hand With HeartChristmas Crackers (An easy gift for neighborhood friends or homeschool groups or a nice addition to a feast day table during Advent.)

 

Advent Week 4: Focus on the Holy Land

Traditions to Learn About: The Holy Places of the Christmas Story, Nativity Scenes from Around the World


Links for research:
St. Francis and The Christmas Creche
 
Books to Illustrate the Point:

The Legend of the Christmas Rose

The Crippled Lamb

Bright Christmas: An Angel Remembers
King of the Stable
There Was No Snow on Christmas Eve 
The Christmas Bird 
The Shepherd's Christmas Story

Feasts to Celebrate:
Christmas
St. Stephen


Stories for Preparing Little Hearts:
 Stephen's Feast 
Good King Wenceslaus 
Jane Ray: The Story of Christmas
A Christmas Story (Wildsmith)
The Very First Christmas 
 

Fireside Tales: 

Tomie dePaola: Jingle the Christmas Clown

The First Christmas Stocking

 A Small Miracle

Tomie dePaola: The Clown of God

Recipes to Try:

Mince Meat Pies 
Explanation: When the Crusaders came back to England, they brought with them spices from the Holy Land. These spices were added to huge pies made of meats of various kinds, minced very fine and enclosed in pastry. The pies were oblong in shape, to represent the manger. A depression was made in the top to hold a figure of the Infant Jesus, which was removed just before the pie was cut.

 

Ornaments for Your Tree: Popsicle Stick Nativity Grottos (Create small grotto shapes out of popsicle sticks, glue your favorite image of the nativity in the center and decorate with stones, jewels or sequins.), Paper Stars , Pine Cone Angels

 

By Hand With Heart: Wee Wooden Holy Families (Paint or design sets of wooden holy families for little ones' stockings.)  Blank pegs available here. 

 

Christmas Week: Focus on Italy, France, Spain

Traditions to Learn About: Christmas Foods Around the World


Links for Research: 
Tons of explanations, recipes, and further links to follow

Stories to Illustrate the Point:
 The Huron Carol 
The Legend of the Candy Cane
Merry Christmas, Strega Nona!
The Gift of the Christmas Cookie 

Feasts to Celebrate:
Mary, the Mother of God

Preparing Little Hearts:
Tomie dePaola: Mary: The Mother of Jesus
Mary Mother of Jesus 

Fireside Tales:

Christmas Cookies: Bite-Sized Holiday Lessons 

Recipes to Try: Your favorite cookies
 

Ornaments for Your Tree: beaded candy canes , salt dough cookie ornaments (Make and roll out the dough, let the kids cut them with holiday cutters, poke a small hole on the top of each with the tip of a pencil before baking.  When cooled, let the kids paint them to resemble iced and decorated cookies. Tie a ribbon through the hole and hang.)

 

By Hand With Heart: Cocoa Mix and Peppermint Marshmallows (Consider bringing these as hostess gifts when you do your holiday visiting).

 

New Year's Week: Focus on Central and South America

Traditions to Learn About: Epiphany Traditions Around the World


Links for Research:
Epiphany Traditions from World Wide Gourmet 
Twelfth Night 

Stories that Illustrate the Point:
 A Gift for the Christ Child 
Baboushka and the Three Kings 
Tomie dePaola: The Legend of Old Befana

Feasts to Celebrate:

Epiphany

Preparing Little Hearts:
We Three Kings 
 Tomie dePaola: The Story of the Three Wise Kings
 The Visit of the Wise Men 

Fireside Tales:

Max Lucado: Jacob's Gift

The Little Drummer Boy
The Last Straw 
  
Recipes to Try: Make a version of King's Cake: FrenchMexican , Spanish, or New Orelans Style

 

Ornaments for Your Tree: bejeweled crowns

 

By Hand With Heart: Wee Wooden Magi (Make a sets of Wee Wooden Magi for little ones to enjoy.) Blank pegs available here. 

                                   

 

 

It's The Most Read -Aloud Time of the Year!

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I'm not a big fan of Peppermint Joe-Joes before Thanksgiving. Or of Mint Hot Chocolate crowding out the Pumpkin Spiced Chai. I'm not one to decorate for Christmas in mid-November. But...

There is something to be said for ordering Christmas cards when you order your Thanksgiving bird. There's a definite advantage to buying Advent candles by the case in January and having them blessed at Candlemas, especially when it's the first year after the Catholic store around the corner has closed up shop forever. And there's much to be said for organizing the Advent and Christmas books before Advent actually begins.

Here's the plan we hit on a few years ago. Hopefully, this early Advent and Christmas post will be helpful right now. Also, I see lots of Christmasish searches happening here. We are doing LOTS of behind-the-scenes work in order to get ready for an Advent ebook, but if you're trying to find something in particular, leave me a comment here and I'll see if I can help. And if you just have a question about Advent or Christmas and how we do things around here, I'm happy to entertain those now, too. Because thinking ahead is the first step in living intentionally. 

Chris Scarlett sent me another wonderful annotated book list. Lots of the books on her list are family favorites of ours.  

The past few years, I wrapped all of our advent and Christmas books and labeled them with dates to open one or two a day. I'm pretty excited about my crazy organization. 

All so good. We wrapped these books last year before we put them away. They are numbered according to the day they will be opened. Patting my inner Martha on the back....

We will unwrap one a day (two in some cases) and be sure that book gets the spotlight that day. Then, all the others and all the previously unwrapped ones can also be read on any given day.  I reserved certain feast day books and our favorite Peppermint Day inspiration. I absolutely did not overthink this. Honestly, I mostly let Mary Beth do it the first few years and Katie do it last year for this Advent. The big goal--the whole idea--is just be certain every book gets read at least once and to trust that the literature will work its way into their hearts and their warm memories..

The spotlight all season will be on the Jesse Tree. Last year was the first time we used Ann Voskamp's Unwrapping the Greatest Gift. I love this book. I love the Jesse Tree ornaments and I love the way the stories are retold. The best endorsement I can share with you is that I sent one of these to each of my godchildren last year.  

AND I HAVE SOME CHAPTER BOOKS SET ASIDE FOR READ-ALONES:

We became devoted fans of Anne of Green Gables and the other Anne stories by L. M. Montgomery this year so it was with great joy that I reviewed Christmas With Anne And Other Holiday Stories, edited by Rea Wilmshurst. The book is a collection of short stories by Montgomery published in magazines in the early 1900’s and two stories from the Anne of Green Gables series. Like the books in the series, the stories can be a bit overly-sentimental but there is something so compelling and good about Montgomery’s characters and plots that the sweet is satisfying instead of sickening. If your children haven’t met Anne, this book, read aloud, is a lovely introduction. If they know her well, the two Christmas stories will be remembered fondly and the others will be fresh fodder for the devotion that Montgomery inspires in her young readers.

Similarly, all the Laura Ingalls Wilder Christmas memories are gathered into one anthology. A Little House Christmas Treasury is very sweet Christmas reading...

The message of advent and Christmas can get a little worn when the book box is brimming and they all begin to look the same. I read Papa’s Angels by Collin Wilcox Paxton and Gray Carden in one sitting, with tears streaming down my face. It brought to mind a dear friend who has experienced the loss of both her parents this year and the hope and joy that I pray her children will bring her this Christmas.

Papa’s Angels  is a book for older children. It is a quick and easy read but it is deep and thoughtful and at times, dark and haunting. Told through the eyes of Becca, a gifted twelve-year-old writer who lives with her father and four younger siblings in Appalachia, it is the story of the immense grief of a young father who has lost his dearly beloved wife to an illness just before Christmas. 

 As Papa retreats more and more into his sorrow, the children become increasingly hopeless that they will ever again hear him sing or see him laugh. Their grandmother keeps alive the flickers of hope that seem to be every child’s birthright and gently guides them to see how they can help their father stir from his misery. Interspersed throughout the book are lovely songs that Papa has composed in happier days to celebrate his family and express the sweet, pure, lasting love he has for his wife. In the end, it is music, the wisdom of children, and the spirit of love that triumphs over loss and brings the father back to his children.

Jotham’s Journey by Arnold Ytreeide is an advent storybook with one installment for every day of Advent. The story is very compelling and my children frequently begged for more after one day’s devotion was read. Ten-year-old Jotham travels across Israel, searching for his family and facing great danger and breathless adventure. Ultimately, his journey takes him the Infant in Bethlehem. While the author uses this book as a bedtime story, some adventures are rather intense and I prefer to leave it to my middle schoolers and encourage them to read during the day.

Christmas Remembered by Tomie dePaola Each short chapter is an interesting autobiographical story of his colorful life, pun intended.

Below, I've mixed my thoughts on picture books in with Chris' notes. I'm sorry if this confuses some of you. Please think of it as the virtual version of two enthusiastic picture book lovers trying to tell you everything that excites them about Christmas books all at once:-). Lots to love here.

 

 

EARLY ADVENT:

The Twenty-four Days Before Christmas, An Austin Family Story by Madeleine L'Engle, illustrated by Joe DeVelasco this has few pictures, but is a delightful story to stretch out from December 1-24.

Waiting For Noel, An Advent Story by Ann Dixon, illustrated by Mark Graham This is the story of a family waiting for a birth in this and the previous title. I love to give this as a gift to families awaiting "Christmas babies." And I love to read it every year with my Christmas baby, even though now he's rather large.

The Little Advent Book by Ida Bohatta, English version by John Theobald Sweet, tiny German book if you can find it.

 

OTHER JESSE TREE COMPANIONS:

Your favorite children's illustrated (or adult) Bible

 One Wintry Night by Ruth Bell Graham (Billy's wife), illustrated by Richard Jesse Watson (especially well done illustrations in this story that immerses us in a compressed version of salvation history from Creation to Easter)

GENERAL NATIVITY THEMES:

For the very littlest of listeners B is for Bethlehem. Isabel Wilner tells the story of Christmas in lyrical couplets, which are neither sticky nor snooty. The exuberant collage art in this nicely sized board book makes it eye candy for all of us, young or old. 

And then move on to There Was No Snow on Christmas Eve. The prose on each page is sparse, so the book moves quickly enough for little ones, but watercolor illustrations captivate readers and beg us to linger. There is reality here: Mary is very young, the earth is dry and dusty, and the animals don’t speak. But there is beauty and believability in the reality of the miracle. 

The First Night by B. G. Hennessy, paintings by Steve Johnson with Lou Fancher is perfect for toddlers, preschoolers, or a Baby's First Christmas gift.

One Special Star by Anita McFadzean, illustrated by Kate Jasper's is a counting book, from 10-1

The First Christmas by Rachel Billington, illustrations by Barbara Brown (very complete)

The Christ Child, as told by Matthew and Luke, made by Maud and Miska Petersham (1931, might be hard to come by, but so worth a try)

The Story of the Nativity by Elizabeth Winthrop, illustrated by Ruth Sanderson (brief, little intro for younger children)

King of the Stable, by Melody Carlson A wealthy boy in biblical times learns the meaning of the Incarnation when he must leave his home to live with poorer relatives in Bethlehem--and ends up helping a certain couple who are about to have a very special baby.

The Shepherd's Christmas Story, by Dandi Mackall This is the story of the announcement that the Savior was born, described by a shepherd who was there.

Bright Christmas, An Angel Remembers, by Andrew Clements  imagines a heavenly perspective on the birth of Jesus. The clever and colloquial text incorporates angel appearances from several Bible stories and hints at what it might feel like to be such a religious messenger. Kiesler's  soft oil paintings set the scene for biblical events with canvases of blue-black starlit nights and vast expanses of golden Middle Eastern desert. Worth the hunt to find this one.)

THIS NEXT GROUP OF GENERAL NATIVITY TITLES WOULD BE ESPECIALLY NICE TO REVISIT ON OR NEAR CHRISTMAS EVE.

A Christmas Story by Brian Wildsmith was well-received in our house. My children are fond of other books he has illustrated. Wildsmith’s unique illustrating style is at its best in this book. The story is a simply told rendition of the nativity story, from the perspective of Rebecca, a little girl whom Mary leaves to care for a young donkey when the donkey’s mother carries the Blessed Mother to Bethlehem. The young donkey misses his mother and Rebecca ends up in Bethlehem, too. The paintings are anything but simple. They are richly textured with brilliant color and lovely accents of gold. We stopped and looked carefully every page. This book begged to be followed by an art project, where gold paint was readily accessible. 

My favorite book to give new mothers is When It Snowed That Night by Norma Farber. My children really don’t sit still very well for this one. I read it more for me. It is so easy in the weeks preceding Christmas to get caught up in the busy-ness of life. There is so much for parents to do. What we forget is that often what our children need most is not that we do but that we be. They need us to be available to them to talk or rock or read or just sit in comfortable silence when the story is finished. This book remains in our Christmas box to remind me to slow down and just be with my children. Reading aloud is a wonderful vehicle for doing that. 

The book is composed of poems from many of the creatures who went to greet the Christ child. At the end of the book, the queens come. They are late, having left their children with sitters, and they don’t stay long because: 

Their thoughts are already straining far—

Past manger and mother and guiding star and child aglow as a morning sun—

toward home and children and chores undone.

They are distracted because they are going in too many directions. There are so many worthy causes—particularly during advent and Christmastime. 

I don’t want to be like the queens, giving little bits of myself to lots of people and all of my heart and soul to no one. Instead, I want to serve my Lord with my whole heart—caring tenderly for the children he has entrusted to me and guarding carefully my time so that I don’t over-commit and neglect my home and family. 

We are given opportunities every day to bring into our children’s lives those things which are true and beautiful when we read aloud to them in our homes. We have the opportunity to be like the last creature in Farber’s book, who identifies with and emulates the Blessed Mother: 

I never got to Bethlehem,

someone, I thought, should (day and night)

be here, someone should stay at home.

I think I was probably right.

For I have sung my child to dream

far, far away from where there lies

a woman doing much the same.

And neither of our children cries.

 Beautiful books are enduring and I can imagine sharing our collection, which will be quite large, at Christmas with my children’s children. I also try to give books to each of my godchildren each year at the beginning of advent. I hope these books will find a special place in the hearts of the children who are dear to me. I know they have found a place in mine.

My favorite book this year is a simple one compared to the others. The illustrations are drawn in colored pencil and reflect the message: Christ is not complicated. He is not hard to find. He is simple. He came to the shepherds—poor, uneducated, humble servants. He made himself obvious and available to the lowly. The Shepherd’s Christmas Story by Dandi Daley Mackall evokes the whispers of Old Testament prophecies and underscores the tenderness of the Good Shepherd. Children will like the storyline which is rich with the images of a shepherd’s life, but the message is not a childish one. Children believe in God; they accept Him readily as truth. It is adults who search for God—they seek him, often without knowing what they are seeking. They look for knowledge and nobility, for theological understanding, for outward signs of secular greatness, both for themselves and for their Savior. But they will find Him in infinite simplicity. He is Love. He is the baby, the Good Shepherd, the Lamb of Sacrifice, and the risen Lord who commanded Peter to feed his sheep. He made himself known to the uneducated, unsophisticated, simple shepherd who walked solely by faith. This Advent, as we share stories with our children, we pray for an increase in faith, so that though we may not understand at all, we—like the shepherds—will truly know Love.

An excellent art book, whose text is pure scripture is a sophisticated picture book illustrated by Jane Ray called The Story of ChristmasThe large pictures combine symbols from ancient and modern folk art to illustrate the Christmas story. Text is taken directly form the King James version of the gospels of Matthew and Luke. The book begs to be read aloud reverently by fathers on Christmas Eve. 

Father and Son: A Nativity Story by Geraldine McCraughean I'm so sad this is out of print. Do hunt it down. This quiet picture book imagines the thoughts and fears of Joseph as he reflects on the birth of the Christ child. Glowing illustrations offer a series of pleasant scenes, as Joseph envisions the baby growing to be a boy. Charming decorative borders add gracefully frame the pages.

 I freely admit that I bought All for the Newborn Baby when I was expecting Nicholas, solely because of its title. This book was wrapped and ready, waiting for our newborn baby. It is a well-researched, beautifully illustrated picture book that might be enjoyed by a small child on a quiet afternoon, but will truly be appreciated by much older children and adults.

The author shares that she remembered being told as a child that some people are blessed on Christmas Eve with the ability to hear animals speak. She researched Christmas stories from around the world that featured miracle tales of animals and wove the stories into a lullaby that Mary might have sung to her newborn baby. The text is very simple and the illustrations exquisite. This is a book that will truly be a treasure for those who collect fine Christmas books.

A picture book that is suitable for older children is The Christmas Miracle of Jonathon Toomey. Toomey is a widower who has become sad and reclusive since the death of his wife and son. A seven-year-old boy and his widowed mother are persistent in offering their friendship as Jonathon carves a creche for them. The carving of the creche is a story within the story and there is a joyous miracle on Christmas day. This is a tear-jerker that gives me chills every time I read it. It is not sappy and overdone but truly touching. This is the perfect picture book for children in the middle grades who might consider themselves too old for picture books. The book was written by Susan Wojciechowski. Illustrations are rich, realistic watercolors by P.J. Lynch. If there is a seven-year-old boy in your life, you must have this book. The rest of us should find a seven-year-old boy and buy the book so that we can live the story through the eyes of the child. 

Christmas in the Barn by Margaret Wise Brown, pictures by Barbara Cooney (from two Grand Dames of children's lit)

For the very youngest child, Who’s Coming to Our House? by Joseph Slate is engaging and endearing. The book follows a pattern so predictable that my son Christian, who was not even really a fluent talker at three, had the entire book memorized so that her could “read” it to Patrick, one. All the animals in the stable take part in preparing their house for a very special visitor.

Three of my children were baptized during advent and we received a lovely picture book as a baptism gift. This is the Star  by Joyce Dunbar is a lovely story of the birth of Jesus that builds on itself. The book works well as a read-aloud because it is rhythmic and employs rich, poetic language and gorgeous illustrations that hold the older listener while younger listeners absorb the story. 

One book in our box which is so tattered and well-loved that I would like to replace it in hardback isThe Donkey's Dream by Barbara Helen Berger. It tells the story of the dreams a donkey dreamt as he carried the Blessed Mother to Bethlehem. This book is one of a few really “Catholic” feeling Christmas books. The images of Our Lady—which read like a litany—are worthy of study and discussion with older elementary and middle school children but the story can stand on its own with very young children. The pictures are beautifully colored and framed by a border of forget-me-nots, also called les yeux dex Marie.  

The Legend of the Christmas Rose by William H. Hicks is the story of Dorothy, a nine-year-old girl whose older brothers are shepherds. When they see an angel who directs them to a baby in a manger, Dorothy secretly follows them. Just before she arrives, she realizes she has no gift. Beautiful white flowers miraculously appear. When she presents them to the Christ child, He performs another miracle. The book is well-written and illustrated by lovely, realistic paintings. To extend the book, I would bring some Christmas roses into the house. 

King of the Stableby Melody Carlson, is the story of Matthew, who leaves his father’s affluent home to live with relatives in Bethlehem. Not accustomed to working, Matthew is a bit discouraged when he is made “king of the stable,” in charge of feeding, watering, and cleaning up after the animals. Since this is Bethlehem and Matthew is in charge of a stable, wondrous things are certain to happen. 

Jacob’s Gift by popular Christian author Max Lucado, tells the story of a carpenter’s apprentice, Jacob, who is competing with the other apprentices to determine who will be chosen to help build the new synagogue. Jacob loves working with wood and pours his heart and soul into a beautiful feeding trough. He falls asleep just as he finishes only to be awakened by brilliant starlight and a tough decision. Jacob truly learns that “when you give a gift to one of God’s children, you give a gift to God.”  

CHRISTMAS GIFT OF THE PRIESTHOOD:

King Island Christmas by Jean Rogers, illustrated by Rie Munoz This is an Eskimo story.  Will Fr. Carroll make it in time for Mass?

The Miracle of St. Nicholas by Gloria Whelan, illustrated by Judith Brown Don't miss this story of a Russian Christmas surprise. I dearly, dearly love this book. This year, with all the parts of our parish mission dispersed into various homes in the neighborhood, the book resonates all the more.

Inspired by Christmas Music

Joy To The World! Carols selected by Maureen Forrester, illustrated by Frances Tyrrell (favorites and lesser-known songs with especially cute illustrations)

And It Came To Pass by Jean Slaughter, illustrated by Leonard Weisgard (the Biblical account interspersed with snippets of carols, vintage 1971)

Silent Night, The Song and Its Story by Margaret Hodges, illustrated by Tim Ladwig (I totally wish I could visit Austria some day.)

 A gift book to give a musical family is Silent Night illustrated by Susan Jeffers. The text is that of the lovely carol and the illustrations, in shades of blue and soft yellow, are by popular children's illustrator Susan Jeffers. This book will help visual children to interpret the carol. The pictures are very engaging. Since the words are well-known, you might also find yourself digressing from the text to just chat your way through the book. These are pictures for conversation. Music is included so this book would make a pretty decoration propped on the piano. 

 Bring a Torch, Jeannette, Isabella, A Provencal Carol, pictures by Adrienne Adams 

 The Huron Carol is a beautifully illustrated, sophisticated picture book. Illustrator Frances Tyrell has set pictures to the English translation of an old Christmas Carol composed by Father Jean de Brebeuf, a French Jesuit missionary who lived among the Huron Indians in the early 1600’s.The carol entwines the traditional Christmas story with Huron spirit and tradition. In this book, the pictures complement the text and maintain the authenticity of the Huron heritage.  There's an MP3 here: The Huron Carol by Father Jean de Brebeuf

 'Twas In The Moon Of Wintertime, The First American Christmas Carol adapted by Roz Abisch, illustrated by Boche Kaplan (same song as the previous book with a completely different art style.  See which one your children prefer.)

My friend Kathy discovered O Holy Night: Christmas with the Boys Choir of Harlem at the Catholic Shop and called especially to tell me about it. The first thing that struck me about this book, illustrated by the renowned Faith Ringgold, is that the Holy Family is dark-skinned and the supporting cast is multi-ethnic. The book begins with scripture and then moves to illustrated lyrics of traditional carols. An accompanying CD is a soulful recording of the Harlem Boys Choir singing Christmas carols. Truly, this book and CD set is a sensory feast. 

Deck the Hall by Sylvia Long. Is a fun, whimsically illustrated book of the favorite carol. Pre-readers love to "read" it aloud because they know the song.

Any version of The Nutcracker if going to the ballet is in your plans this year.  The Scarlett family has a commercial version that is kind of a Where's Waldo-inspired Nutcracker.  The Foss family has this one:

The Nutcracker,  is a hefty coffee table book in classic Sendak style.

Tallulah's Nutcracker is a must-give book for anyone who has a little ballerina on her list. This is a darling story of a little girl who makes ind of a big mess of her first Nutcracker performance, but then lives to tell the tail (er, tale;-).

 

Nurturing Family-Oriented Themes

Grandfather's Christmas Tree by Keith Strand, illustrated by Thomas Locker (survival in 1886 Colorado)

In The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree:  An Appalachian Story by Gloria Houston, it’s Ruthie and her mother who must fulfill the family’s Christmas obligation. They are supposed to furnish the perfect Christmas tree for the town’s celebration. Ruthie’s father had chosen the tree before he left to fight in the war. But he has not yet returned home when it is time to harvest the tree for Christmas. This is a touching story of great wealth amidst poverty. Barbara Clooney’s illustrations are wondrous and this lovely tear-jerker is destined to become a family favorite in our house. 

An Orange for Frankie This story of generosity is a new one in our house this year, a gift for someone who learned that trips to Lansing can bring lessons and blessings. This is a holiday story close to author Patricia Polacco's heart. Frankie was her grandmother's youngest brother, and every year she and her family remember this tale of a little boy who learned--and taught--an important lesson about giving, one Christmas long ago. Polacco is a favorite author who doesn't disappoint with this one.

My Prairie Christmas by Brett Harvey, illustrations by Deborah Kogan Ray (touching and suspenseful)

 A New Coat For Anna by Harriet Ziefert, illustrated by Anita Lobel Based on a true post-WW 2 story of delayed gratification, can be enjoyed year around.

Silent Night by Will Moses has folk art and a new baby--what's not to love?

The Snow Speaks by Nancy White Carlstrom, illustrated by Jane Dyer (one of my favorite illustrators)

The Miracle on 34th Street I love this version. It's out of print, but worth the hunt.

 The Story of Holly and Ivy by Rumer Godden, pictures by Barbara Cooney  Both boys and girls like this for different reasons.

Linda Schlafer’s A Gift for the Christ Child: A Christmas Folktale is a lovely story of two South American boys who travel from their poor home in the mountains to the glorious church in town to make a Christmas offering on behalf of their family. Along the way, they are called to minister to a woman in need. This book is also illustrated with bright collages, but they are simple collages. And it’s the simplicity of the illustrations that really captivates and truly expresses the message of the story.

A children’s favorite is The Legend of the Candy Cane by Lori Walburg. A young girl named Lucy helps a stranger in town unpack the boxes in his store. There, she discovers that his is to be candy store. The owner shares with Lucy the legend of the candy. When held upside down, the cane is a “J”, for Jesus. The red stripes represent His suffering, which washed away our sin and made us pure as the snow, represented by white stripes. I really appreciated this gentle reminder that the sweet baby was born to die for all of us--the ultimate Christmas present. The candy held upright looks like a shepherd’s staff. I pointed out to my children that the bishops and the Pope carry such staffs today. This book really begs to be a project. Lucy and the candy man went to every house in town leaving candy canes and an invitation to the store to learn the legend. I don’t think I’m up to entertaining the whole town, but perhaps a few neighborhood children would enjoy a candy cane and some cookies while we read some carefully chosen Christmas stories. 

The Angel of Mill Street by Frances Ward Weller, illustrated by Robert J. Blake Catholic culture pervades this survival tale.

Nine Days To Christmas, A Story of Mexico by Marie Hall Ets and Aurora LaBastida Caldecott Medal, use this if you celebrate La Posadas.

 A Time To Keep, The Tasha Tudor Book of Holidays (check out the December, then January sections)

Christmas Poetry 

'Twas the Night Before Christmas: This version or this one. Or this incredible pop-up version. We don't wrap these in our house. We start reading daily at the beginning of Advent and aim to have it memorized by Christmas.

 A Christmas Garland, Stories, poems, and prayers for the holiday season compiled by Grace Hudson, illustrated by Margaret Tarrant (sweet illustrations)

Welcome Christmas! A Garland of Poems chosen by Anne Thaxter Eaton, decorated by Valenti Angelo(1955, sparsely illustrated)

Tales of Christmas 

 Why The Chimes Ring by Raymond MacDonald Alden, illustrated by Rafaello Busoni (cathedral setting)

For Every Child A Star, A Christmas Story by Thomas Yeomans, illustrated by Tomie dePaola  (would work well for Epiphany, too)

The Fourth Wise Man, Based on the story by Henry Van Dyke, retold by Susan Summers, illustrated by Jackie Morris (even the endpapers are gorgeous in this one)

Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens, illustrated by Roberto Innocenti (the best version I have ever seen, good prep for or follow up to a live performance)

The Christmas Donkey by Gillian McClure (the only book on the list with a talking animal, I promise)

Special Feast Days During Advent:

St. Barbara December 4th: This is the day we build and decorate gingerbread houses (because St. Barbara is patroness of architects;-), so I break out all the Jan Brett Christmas/gingerbread books on this day for artistic inspiration. The treasury is out of print, so don't miss Who's that Knowcking on Christmas Eve? Home for Christmas, Christmas Trolls, Wild Christmas Reindeer

 

 

St. Nicholas, December 6th: We seem to be collecting quite a treasure trove of Saint Nicholas books, so I’m not sure how The Legend of Saint Nicholas by Demi escaped us until now. A very complete account of the beloved Patron of Children, this book’s gilded pictures are memorable and tease the reader with almost icon-like presentations of modern Christmas symbols. For instance, young Nicholas tosses gold coins into a fur-trimmed red Christmas stocking. There is so much to talk about on every page of this book and so many opportunities for every member of the family to grow closer good St. Nick!

The Gift of Saint Nicholas by Dorothea Lachner, illustrated by Maja Dusikova (Eastern European village-y feel)

The Baker's Dozen by Heather Forest, illustrated by Susan Gaber Scarlett family fave.  I told my crew that the semi-creepy old lady is a metaphor for the baker's conscience.  Others have done versions of this story, but this is my top choice.  When a business begins to cut corners or cheap-out over time, our family refers to it as a Van Amsterdam.  Read this book and you will see why.

From my favorite publishers, the folks at Bethlehem Books, comes The Miracle of Saint Nicholas. Alexi is a Russian child whose grandmother tells him of the soldiers who closed Saint Nicholas church many years ago. When he asks why they can’t celebrate Christmas there this year, she tells him that it would take a miracle. The little boy believes in miracles. I purchased this book to give to my children on the feast of Saint Nicholas. It is my sentimental favorite because it reminds of me of people in my life who are very dear to me and who have meant much to the growing faith of our family. Two of my children’s godparents are Eastern Orthodox and, among other things, the boys are learning a true appreciation of Eastern religious art. I am especially pleased with the icons throughout the text. It is nice to see both the art and the faith of the Russians so beautifully depicted here. 

Immaculate Conception, December 8th:

These do a good job of covering Mother Mary's early life.

Young Mary of Nazareth by Mariana Mayer (my first choice)

Mary by Brian Wildsmith (great artwork)

Mary, the Mother of Jesus by Tomie dePaola

St. Juan Diego, December 9th/Our Lady of Guadalupe:, December 12th

The Story of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Empress of the Americas by C. Lourdes Walsh, illustrations from paintings by Jorge Sanchez-Hernandez (excellent version)

The Lady of Guadalupe by Tomie dePaola (very reverent, but easy to relate to)

St. Lucia (Lucy), December 13th

 Lucia Morning in Sweden by Ewa Rydaker, with illustrations by Carina Stahlberg (modern family's customs)

Erik and the Christmas Horse by Hans Pererson, illustrated by Ilon Wikland (also set in Sweden, vintage 1970)

Lucia Saint of Light by Katherine Bolger Hyde Lovely book, with recipe of Santa Lucia buns and also with music for a hymn. Written from the Eastern Orthodox perspective.