It's a Beautycounter Birthday Party!

And you’re invited!

Beautycounter is throwing a HUGE party to celebrate 10 years of advocating for better beauty.

My girls and I had an in-person party planned for last weekend, but our hostess had to cancel. We were all ready to share about a ten-year advocacy for better beauty and skin care products. We wanted to show people up close how Beautycounter’s products are actually good for you. And gosh, we were so looking forward to playing with colors and to sharing our favorites and showing all the good there is to celebrate in this good clean company.

We aren’t going to waste a chance to have a party.  Over the next few days, the girls and I are planning to bring the party to you! We’re going to post to Instagram with makeup tutorials and favorite products posts and party food.

As much as I am able, I’ll share that here also.

It’s going to be a week of sharing all the good there is to know about Beautycounter! And will there ever be BIRTHDAY GIFTS! Beautycounter is showering you with some amazing gifts with purchase.

Until Friday only, spend $125 and get a FREE full-size All Bright C Serum. (a $90 value)

Spend $250, and get the C Serum plus a FREE AHA Smoothing mask (a $96 value). So, birthday gifts worth a total of $186.

Those seem super generous, but there are even more good things out there to be had for a song.

You can add a new Band of Beauty perks membership to your order for $10. That will give you free shipping on that order, a generous welcome gift, and 10% product credit on that order and every order you make for a year. If you’re already a member, you can renew at the $10 rate as long as you are within six months of your expiration date. They’ll just add the new twelve months to the end of your membership. And you get a gift, too! (I’m starting to sound like Oprah.)

And then, as you switch the calendar from March to April, you’ll see what a good thing you did for your skin. Guaranteed.

You know this all matters to me. I’ve told you how this business has helped me educate and train and put in place the infrastructure for ministry. It’s been such an unexpected blessing! I want to shower you with gifts, too. When you use this link to order between now and March 10, you will be eligible to win some party favors from the Foss Fam.

Thank you. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you for letting me share the goodness with you!

A Daybook As Lent Begins

Outside my window:  It’s a muddy mess. Usually, February in Connecticut is a beautiful world of black and white. The snow falls in December and it stays, a fresh blanket every week or so ensuring that any melting and mud is covered again in pristine white. Not this year. It hasn’t snowed and stayed at all, really. But it has rained, and when it’s not raining, it’s cloudy and gray, so the ground stays wet. Add a few dogs, and you have a muddy mess out there.

Listening to: Quiet. It’s before dawn as I write. An occasional car or truck rumbles by outside on Main Street, but mostly, I just hear the hum of the radiator.

Clothing myself in: Flannel pjs, a sweatshirt, warm socks, and a Chappy Wrap, currently. Three winters in, and we still haven’t figured out the trick to keeping this house warm.

Talking with my children about these books: Atomic Habits. We’ve slid into some sloppy time “un-management” around here. I love this book for its clarity and its simplicity. Life is really the sum of all the small things you do every day. Those things should be intentional. Lent is a good time to reset, to remember that life here is short and eternity is long, and to live accordingly. Make it matter. Atomic Habits is a secular book, but the conversations around it here in my home are infused with faith.

In my own reading: From Strength to Strength. I listened to the author, Arthur C. Brooks on the Rich Roll podcast, and then I took a deeper dive into the book. His premise is that we all have two seasons of strength. Here’s what the publisher writes:

Many of us assume that the more successful we are, the less susceptible we become to the sense of professional and social irrelevance that often accompanies aging. But the truth is, the greater our achievements and our attachment to them, the more we notice our decline, and the more painful it is when it occurs. 

What can we do, starting now, to make our older years a time of happiness, purpose, and yes, success? 

At the height of his career at the age of 50, Arthur Brooks embarked on a seven-year journey to discover how to transform his future from one of disappointment over waning abilities into an opportunity for progress. From Strength to Strength is the result, a practical roadmap for the rest of your life. 

Drawing on social science, philosophy, biography, theology, and eastern wisdom, as well as dozens of interviews with everyday men and women, Brooks shows us that true life success is well within our reach. By refocusing on certain priorities and habits that anyone can learn, such as deep wisdom, detachment from empty rewards, connection and service to others, and spiritual progress, we can set ourselves up for increased happiness. 

Note to moms who have spent the last two decades or more raising big families: your “achievements” may not be “professional,” but it is very likely that your attachments to them and the way your identity is tied to them is profound. “Decline” is a little different for you, but the shift is even more pronounced, I think. He's pretty blunt in the beginning about that “decline,” and I admit I bristled a bit, but the refocus is definitely worth pondering and acting upon. The author has a personal friendship with the Dalai Lama so he’s very open to eastern thought, but he is a professed devout Catholic. His ability to extract truth and apply it to a western, Christian mindset is quite profound. Lots to think on here.

Thinking and thinking: About how it’s all turning out. The last three years have been so unexpected, so not a part of any of my 10-year plans, that I have had a bit of emotional whiplash. I feel things deeply and intensely and processing it all has been exhausting. With my father’s death came an abrupt disruption of my relationship with my stepmother that I never saw coming. (Given my lifelong attachment to fairy tales and Jane Austen, perhaps I should have seen it coming…) With our move to Connecticut, every rhythm of every meaningful relationship has changed. It’s a lot. I’m just now acknowledging how much it has been to process, and I’m coaching myself to be kind and merciful—to myself.

Pondering: “Our thoughts determine our whole life. If our thoughts are destructive, we will have no peace. If they are quiet, meek, and simple, our life will be the same, and we will have peace within us. It will radiate from us and influence all beings around us.” From Our Thoughts Determine Our Lives.

Carefully Cultivating Rhythm: Rhythm has been rocked lately. I’ve been on more airplanes in the past three months than in the first twenty-five years of adulthood. It’s hard to have rhythm in a household with three teen girls when you’re leaving them all the time. This is one of the challenges of my current season. I want to be here, to do meaningful and important things with the girls, and to pour everything I have into these last few years of mothering in my own home. I also want to travel to see the boys who have moved away, to spend time with my husband, and to tend to my aging mother. I’m pulled in several directions (literally). It feels a lot like it did when I had a baby and a full-time job. I had a crushing, overwhelming sense that it was going to be impossible to do both well. And back then, I don’t think I recognized that marriage, too, needs careful, constant, intentional tending.

We have to find a rhythm here. I am intensely uncomfortable when I can’t find the beat.

Creating By Hand:  Food! I’m taking a course this year to be certified as a Whole Foods Plant Based chef. I have zero aspirations to work in a restaurant or to cater big events (unless you count family dinners when they all come home). But this very complete course is something I’ve wanted to do with the girls for a long time. It’s thorough and fascinating and holds such vital life skills. We’re shopping and cooking together, and it’s good.

Learning lessons in: Holding grief and joy together. Our trips away in the past month have been stark illustrations of something I’ve been grappling with for the past couple years. I think I always conceptualized life as a novel. There would be a slow I introduction to a struggle or problem, then the messy middle where the good guy (or girl) wrestles it all out, then the resolution, and everlasting peace and happiness. That’s simplistic, to be sure, but the truth is, I’m sort of surprised by how much grief is interspersed with the good things, and by the fact that just when you think you might have resolved a certain struggle or worked through a sorrow, another appears or the same one reveals that it will persist forever. The real lesson there, of course, is that grief and joy can and do co-exist. One actual tragedy after another have conditioned me to look over my shoulder during the good times and watch out for the next crushing blow. I’m trying to change that mindset and to ask myself, “What if it's Wonderful?” I’ve linked the book by that title. It’s been very helpful with this shift in perspective.

Keeping house: I pulled awful, dingy wallpaper down in our master bathroom and gave some banged up cabinets a fresh coat of paint. It’s not the renovation Mike and I talked about. But it didn’t cost the $100,000 the contractor quoted either. And boy, did it ever make me a believer in the power of a can of paint!

 To be fit and happy: I’ve been nursing a couple injuries lately. In late October, I literally fell flat on my face. I have the dent and the scar in my forehead to remember it by always. It feels like that probably needs a post of its own. And then, I’ve been trying to rehab a persistent hip injury. So, things have been a bit slower than usual on the workout front. I’m easing back into these from Revelation Wellness, though.

Giving thanks: For some time with Patrick and Lexi last weekend. We flew to Chicago, picked up Patrick and his wife there, and drove with them to Michigan for a funeral. Then, we drove back to Chicago and flew home. I think we were gone about 36 hours. But those hours with my people truly filled me up. I dearly loved Uncle Mac, who was 95 when he died, and I will miss him (grief). I could not have asked for a better unexpected trip than one that included seeing Paddy’s and Lexi’s first home together and spending eight hours in the car, just the four of us (joy).

Living the Liturgy: We have some really good plans in place for Take Up & Read this Lent. You can see a little preview here.

I like to start the week with a fridge clean out. it inspires the week’s meals.

Planning for the week ahead: I’m cleaning out the refrigerator this morning, just as soon as I close the laptop. I’ll be prepping for our traditional Waffles and Andouille Sausage dinner for Fat Tuesday, and then for the meatless meals this week brings. (Take Up and Read members: Look for recipes in your inbox or on the member site.) I’m thinking about maybe reaching out to some local friends and doing a little series of cooking lessons this Lent…

Then again, I should probably just focus on what is already “on my plate.” We shall see.

Today is the last day of the Beautycounter gift-with-purchase promotion. As I explained in this post, Beautycounter has made the plans for the future of Take Up & Read possible. As a thank you, I want to add my own gift to the gift with purchase. If you spend $125 using my link between now and Ash Wednesday, you will receive a month of free membership at Take Up & Read. We’d love to have you join us for Lent.

A Hallmark Movie Spa Day (sort of)

Hello, there!

It’s February, and boy howdy is it ever weird. It’s been remarkably warm all winter here in New England. Sarah is in a ski club and the only snow they’ve seen is artificially blown onto the slopes. This is so different from our first two winters here where it would snow by early December, and then just keep snowing until March. The ground was always snow-covered. This year, it’s all so very muddy. We had a two-day (very dry) arctic blast over the weekend with subzero temperatures, and then it was 50 degrees outside. I really, really miss the snow. I know our winters here are numbered. I want them all to count.

Mike was gone over the cold snap—away in sunny Las Vegas. He was gone a total of five days, and I tackled a project I’ve been contemplating since before we moved in. Late last year, we drew up some tentative plans to renovate our master bathroom, and we talked to the contractor and carpenter who helped us with the kitchen remodel. He came back with a working budget, and I watched Mike actually flinch.

There’s no way we can do a full renovation job any time soon. The cost is prohibitive.

I’m a relax in the tub at the end of the day kind of person. I love a good soak. I’m far more attached to my skincare regimen than I ever will be to makeup. I love to soak. Did I say that already? I love to get clean. And I love to be alone for a few minutes before transitioning to whatever the evening holds.

But I could not hate that bathroom more.

When we first moved in I was so convinced there was mold growing there, I pulled some wallpaper down. (In my defense, when I did this in the pool bathroom, I did indeed find mold.) There was no mold in the master bathroom. But the wallpaper was very old and the glue was very gluey and I thought we were going to just tear it all back to the studs soon, so I left it. Some dingy paper up, some ripped haphazardly from the walls. For more than two years. Mike never said a word.

But we both hated the bathroom. I have no before pictures. (I regret this.)

I thought I could make a good go at making the bathroom less of an eyesore in the five days he’d be gone and surprise him with the finished project. I never make major purchases without consulting him, so the budget was limited to paint and paint supplies. (I added some new but very inexpensive switch plates and a couple towels and bath mats at the end.)

I pulled down almost all the wallpaper, with the exception of what needed a ladder. Then, I set about removing the glue. So much glue. To do that, I sprayed with white vinegar, squeegeed, and then used a sponge and plenty of water. It took a couple days and I smelled like a pickle. But I think I got those walls very, very clean. It was good, hard, physical labor, and I really needed it. Then, feeling more confident in my technique, Katie and I did indeed get the wallpaper and glue at the very top. We used an extension ladder in the tub. I prayed a lot. Do not do this at home.

These have been some very tense days—months? years?—and I’ve learned a thing or two about stress “management.” One thing I know is that it takes physical activity to “complete the stress cycle.” When we’re stressed, our bodies generate plenty of stress hormones. They course through our veins. If the stress is resolved (and even if it is not), those hormones need a way to release. My puppies (there are three in our house right now—a story for another day) release their stress by giving it a good shake. We can do that, too, of course. Or we can spend three days tearing down paper and washing walls and then two days painting. I knew those days Mike was in Vegas would be tense days in my head, and I knew that I’d feel the stress in my body, so I very deliberately lined up something super physical to do. And I’m glad I did!

Early in the process, I was on the phone with Mike, and he commented that the background noise was very annoying. Thankfully, he didn’t ask what I was doing. I was steaming the wallpaper off with a hand steamer and then peeling it. But he did ask me to put my AirPods away and just talk on the phone. So I did. But I was (1) on the phone and talking about something disconcerting (2) peeling wallpaper (3) trying to think of what I would tell him if he wanted to know what I was doing. So, I cannot remember where I put those AirPods. It’s been almost a week now. I use them every day, all the time. Replacing them would literally double the budget of this project. I’m begging St. Anthony…

Without my AirPods, I ended up half listening/ half watching no fewer than 15 Valentine-themed Hallmark movies. This left me quite sure that I could easily follow the formula and write a movie in an afternoon. It also made me way too unreasonably expectant about the coming holiday. And it made me crave chocolate. Well over half of the movies had chocolate in them. My favorite chocolate used to be chocolate mousse. But after diverging from my careful allergy-proof diet and indulging in some decadent and delicious mousse when I was in Vegas with Mike last month, I learned my lesson. And anyway, I really do adore chocolate-covered fruit. So, we’ve been managing our cravings, and “practicing” for Valentine’s Day with these chocolate drizzled strawberries and pineapple. They’re outrageously simple and very addictive. Be sure to buy good fruit and the best chocolate you can. And take the time you need to pat the pineapple as dry as possible before you drizzle.

Mike was so pleased with the bathroom when he arrived home. We didn’t tell him. He got in around midnight and the girls were all still awake because we were just a little excited about the surprise. They retreated to their rooms and I acted completely nonchalant when he went off to brush his teeth. It was a happy surprise after a hard trip. A pretty place to land at home—something I always shoot for.

All this is just in time for Beautycounter’s new Reflect Effect products. I can finally relax in my tub and use these fabulous new “spa items” without spending the whole time looking critically at how ugly the room is. I made some decisions while I worked in there. There were lots of imperfections that are par for the course with old walls. Younger me would have stopped everything and researched how to make them perfect. I would have been frustrated and I probably wouldn’t have finished. New me fixed what was absolutely necessary and incorporated the rest of the imperfections into the plan. Mike has already volunteered to do the ceiling sometime soon. He can reach the ceiling flat on his feet. What Katie and I did with a ladder to reach the top of the wall near the ceiling over the tub would horrify OSHA I’m sure. So there you have it. Things I’ve taken far too long to learn:

It’s okay to have some imperfections. They add character. And it’s okay to ask for help. We all bring different strengths to the situation. You don’t have to do it all alone.

Back to Reflect Effect. Pardon these commercials, but please know they keep the lights on here. Truly. Beautycounter has made Take Up & Read possible this past year, and we have some good things planned for Lent. That means you’ll get another email from me very soon;-). For the next three days, Beautycounter perks members get double product credit on their purchases. You get 20% of what you spend this time to save to spend next time. If you’re not already a Band of Beauty member, these three days are definitely the perfect time to join. All those details are here.

Back to Reflect Effect for real this time. There are two new products. The first is an all-over resurfacing peel for your body. It smoothes away winter dry and dull skin and leaves it feeling and looking soft and glowy. You’ll feel like the heroine in a Hallmark movie; I promise. The second is a favorite from the Christmas gift sets. It’s a finely ground bamboo powder that you can shake into a cleanser to create your own physical exfoliant. I love this! I especially love it after travel or after a long day in the kitchen. It just feels like it gets all the grime. And of course, the dead cells get sloughed off, too, so moisturizer goes on better. And makeup (if you choose it—I almost never do lately) smooths on better, stays on better, and reflects healthier skin.

When you purchase Beautycounter through my links, you help me show up for my ministry. I’ve spent the last year sinking considerable time (and money) into furthering my education so that I can bring that back to women who are devoting their lives to answering God’s call. I have so many plans for meeting you where you are and journeying with you! I’ll tuck a pretty new tube of good, clean lip balm in my pocket for the journey. Maybe you can, too?

(If you want a really good look at the bathroom, including some in-process shots that give you an idea of how far we came, and more details on how to make it a spa, I made some video here.)

I have a new view from the tub, and I don’t hate it!

From the first trip of the new year....

Hi, there!

Happy New Year!

I am currently on a plane heading west to Las Vegas. My husband and I are going out to visit our son, who moved there a couple months ago. It’s a big trip that has been much anticipated. In 2019 and early 2020, Mike worked out in Vegas supervising the building of the ESPN studio where Christian is employed today. He commuted from our home in Virginia to Vegas weekly, and every week he told me how gracious the people were out there and how they’d all said repeatedly that he should bring his wife on one of those trips and they would take good care of us. Then, the world sort of stopped spinning and we moved to Connecticut, and he started a new job. Nearly three years later, we’re on our way to Vegas to take the long-postponed trip.

It's been a fruitful new year so far. Last fall, I made some significant decisions towards my health and towards future ministry. First, I committed to an in-depth life coaching course at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition. After some big health events in summer 2022, it was time to coach myself into a better way of being and to learn a little about coaching others along the way. It’s a year-long course, and I’m so glad I took the plunge.

Because I’m a voracious learner, and I need to constantly feed my brain, I also decided to enroll in a professional chef certification course. I have no desire whatsoever to work in a restaurant or to be a caterer. But I want to know what they know. And boy, howdy, is this one teaching me some things! I’m hoping to invite folks into my kitchen, both literally and virtually, and share the love of good food and conversation.

I’m so glad to be studying. I love listening to lectures. School just makes me happy. I think I was a little stuck, a little unsure where the arc of my story was headed. Then, one day last fall, sitting in the dentist office waiting for a teen to finish up, something just clicked into place. I’m writing my story. I get to decide where the arc is headed. I get to make the story as interesting or repetitive as I want. I get frame to the details. I don’t have control of a lot things in the story, of course, but I know the protagonist. She is me. And I want her to respond the way all good heroes do in stories. I want her to be kind and brave and smart and good. (And my little side hustle would whisper: make her beautiful, too.)

A lot of significant things have happened in the last three years; many of them over which I had little control. Some of those things were terrible by any metric, and it was easy to fall into the role of the victim instead of the heroine. But I did and I do have control over how I respond to those things. I’ve mourned and brooded and thrown a few pity parties. I’ve also prayed and given thanks and resolved to get up and try again. I want to do more of what the heroine does and less of what the victim does. Seems like if we are the ones who write our stories, we should be bold with the character development of the person we know best. Ourselves.

All these classes have yielded a very observable result in our family. We’re eating way more plants. The more I know about the gut microbiome (I took a course on that, too), the more persuaded I am that that is where the magic of good health is found. We know that the more diverse the microbiome is, the healthier it is. The key to that diversity is an abundance of the plant foods that feed the beneficial biota. Towards the goal of a healthy gut (and a resulting happier, healthier us), we have resolved as a family to try to eat at least 30 different plants a week. That’s far more than 30 servings of fruits and vegetables. It’s at least one serving of 30 unique plants. We’ve been hitting the mark pretty consistently, each of us in our own bio-individual way.

a little foodie inspiration from dinner last night after we landed

The other ruling principle in the kitchen is that I plan for at least one serving of beans in everyone’s meal line up every day. Keeping variety in mind, I do mix it up from day to day. Some days we’re dipping into hummus; some days I’m packing pesto chickpeas in Mike’s lunchbox. But every week, on Taco Tuesday, I make one big pot of beans. Sometimes, they’re red beans, sometimes they’re pinto beans, sometimes, they’re black beans. Then, those beans find their way into all sorts of things, all week long. As the price of eggs creeps higher and cheese and meat aren’t too far behind, I’m wondering at the timing of the allergy diagnoses that pushed me into cooking without eggs or dairy or wheat. My $3.00 bag of organic beans is looking like a lottery win! Hang with me until the end. I’ve shared a recipe.

About that *beautiful* heroine part.

Your support of my Beautycounter business has allowed the ministry of Take Up & Read to make plans for some stretching and growing in the next year. I’m really excited about that! I never imagined being a Beautycounter consultant (or any consultant, for that matter). But God’s provision does tickle me. It’s such a joy to talk to people about good-for-them products that make them feel beautiful.

For this trip to Vegas, because I have no idea what to expect, I way over-packed my “beauty bag.” I know I’ll have some downtime in the hotel, and I packed all the things that would make for a nice spa facial.

I have a little jar of Reflect Effect AHA mask from one of the holiday sets. That’s the perfect place to start. This mask is a wonder to me. Ten minutes and my face feels noticeably softer and smoother. There’s something about it that just feels nurturing. I’ll only use it once while we’re there. I’ve given you a link to the full-sized jar. It lasts forever as long as you remember to screw the lid on;-). I also packed some bamboo polish from a Christmas set. There’s no link for that because they’re all sold out, but a little birdie told me we’ll be talking about this wonder-product again in February;-)

On the regular, I’ll use my Countertime regimen with a few other friends thrown in. I packed the Countertime carry-on set. The bottles are plastic, lightweight, and refillable. If you’ve ever wondered what all the Beautycounter fuss was about. This is the way to find out.

I also packed All Bright C Serum for every day brightness, and some priming serum. I really don’t know what’s in store, but I sense the days will be long; priming serum means that makeup goes on smoothly and it stays put. Truth be told, when I left the house this morning, after washing my face, I used All Bright C Serum, followed by priming serum. Then, I put one of our beautiful new lip balms on my lips (Plush was the color, I think), and I swiped a little of it on my cheeks, too. All set. That’s probably enough for any day, but I packed the whole makeup shebang.

Usually, I just leave that Countertime travel set, some C serum, and a Flawless in Five in my travel bag. Then I don’t really have to pack at all. It’s there, ready and waiting. My kids are scattered all over. My mother is in Florida, and can’t come to me. We seem to be traveling a lot. It’s nice to just leave it packed. This time, though, I added the eyeshadow palette from the holiday sets and a couple lipsticks and some mattifying powder and a whole bunch of brushes.

I also probably packed way too many clothes. We shall see. I’ll let you know when I know what all we’re doing out there!

I’ll be back with another newsletter before the Super Bowl. I’ve got some ideas for party foods. In the meantime, here’s my favorite black bean recipe. I had no idea that the Instant Pot means that you don’t have to soak the beans in advance. Game changer!

·       1 lb dry black beans rinsed

·       6 cups water

·       1/4 cup dry white wine

·       1/2 cup tomato sauce

·       1 sweet yellow onion finely diced

·       5 garlic cloves finely minced

·       1 or 2 chipotle peppers in adobe sauce, finely minced

·       1 green green bell pepper

·       2 tsp cumin

·       2 tsp oregano

·       1 TBS maple syrup (optional)

·       salt and pepper to taste

INSTRUCTIONS

1.         Add the black beans to the instant pot along with the water and green bell pepper. 

2.         Press the "pressure cook" function on your instant pot and select 25 minutes. 

3.         When the 25 minutes are up, do a natural release. When the pin in the lid drops down, safely open the lid. Press the "saute" function and let the beans cook uncovered while you prepare the veggies.

4.         Add some oil to a small skillet on the stovetop and let it heat over medium-high heat.

5.         Add the onions and cook for 3-4 minutes or until translucent. Then stir in the garlic and cook for an additional 20 seconds. Add the tomato sauce and chipotle peppers and cook for an additional minute.  Add the onion, garlic, and tomato mixture to the instant pot along with the wine, oregano, cumin, salt, pepper, and maple syrup. 

6.         Continue cooking while stirring occasionally until the beans are nice and thick, about 20 minutes.

Enjoy! These keep well, covered tightly in the refrigerator, for up to a week.

Looking back, looking forward

The days between Christmas and the new year are some of my favorite days every year. There is a hush after the flurry of activity and excitement. The pace slows if I allow it to, and there is time for sitting and pondering, for recollection and quiet conversation. I resist the urge to create more excitement or to be more “productive.” Body, mind, and spirit all need to do the work of regeneration and repair that come with genuine rest.

Of course, there is the call to make plans, to set goals, to firmly resolve in the face of a new calendar year. This can be a call worth answering if one answers with a spirit of calm curiosity. Where is the Lord leading? What is his desire for your well-being? Look on the year past with compassion. Notice the ways you’ve grown. Look at all the ways you’ve made progress in relationships. Let yourself look back for a few moments, being gentle as you examine what went right and what was a grand opportunity to learn. Congratulate yourself on doing the hard work that is necessary in the teachable moments life presented.

And if — in the quiet contemplation — you notice something about yourself that you wish to change, ask yourself why that habit persists. Read the rest here, please.

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